THERE IS NO ALWAYS, THERE’S JUST RIGHT NOW
There is just one life. And it doesn’t have to be spent doing mental dances with yourself. So you have to remove the factors that constantly promote your annoying, absolutely unbearable mental dances in order to go back to clarity. It doesn’t feel nice. But if you know what you are 100% not okay with… the decision becomes easy.
Just a note. Sorry for being so cryptic.